Hello everyone! My name is Miss
ALK and I’m the author of the blog Confessions of a Maine Teenager. I was so
honored when Melody asked me to guest post for her! My post today is similar to
one that I posted a couple months ago on my blog, with the same title…
Pleasant words are a
honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones. ~Proverbs
16:24 NIV
One night back in July, I
was flipping through the book of Proverbs in my Bible, and the words “Pleasant
words” caught my eye, and I stopped to read the worse, which was Proverbs 16:24.
It really stuck out to me, and I felt as though that was just what I needed to
hear, since speech and language are such important tools that we all use every
day. This verse reminded me that they are a gift from the Lord, and we have to
bless him in the ways that we use them!
As Christians, we need to be
extremely careful about the words that we say, either in real life, online, or
in our thoughts, because Christians are called to be an example to others.
(Note: This doesn't mean that Christians are "better" then other people.
That is entirely false, and all are created equal in God's eyes.) What I mean
though is that typically when someone who is not a believer finds out that you
are a Christian, they may begin to watch your actions and words a bit more
closely, and we should try extra hard to be good examples, and show the
"right" uses for words.
Cursing and using profanity is
a sin, especially when it’s the Lord’s name in vain that is being used! Disappointing
Him should be enough reason not to use these types of words, but another good
reason not to is that foul language can help to ruin someone’s reputation. However,
choosing not to curse doesn’t mean that you can never express anger. It just
means to think twice about the type of language that you do to do so. For
example, when I’m upset, I use words like “oh man,” “shoot,” and “oh
gosh,” which are much better alternatives to cursing, and still get the point
across!
Another thing that I thought about after reading this verse was how we
can use words to encourage and uplift. This verse describes kind words as “sweet
to the soul.” I think that everyone could use a little sweetness to the soul!
Isn’t it nice when someone gives you a genuine compliment? It always brightens
my day. :) Instead of complaining all of the time, how about trying to make
someone else happy by telling them something kind? You’ll be surprised at how
much better you will feel!
Now remember, no one is perfect, and there will be times when we will
make mistakes with our words, and say things that are cruel or wrong. But
amazingly, we serve a wonderful God who forgives us when we mess up! The most
important thing is to thank God for his forgiveness, and learn from your
mistake.
I hope that this post was an encouragement to you!
Blessings
xoxo Miss ALK
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About the guest poster: Miss ALK is a soon to be 17 year old teenager from Maine. She blogs at
Confessions of a Maine Teenager, where she blogs about faith,
friendship, fashion, music, entertainment and her life! She loves the
ocean, bunnies, jewelry shopping, scrapbooking and the color aquamarine.
She'd be honored if you visited her blog!